Monday, June 4, 2018

How To Communicate To A Husband Hard Of Hearing

By Nancy Walker


Sometimes, we take for granted our ability to do normal things like speaking, hearing or seeing or even touching. Some people live very difficult lives and have to find ways of passing messages. Luckily, for people who do not hear, they can be taught how to communicate in sign language. However, there are other ways if a person did not always have this problem. Below are some of the effective methods to communicate to your husband hard of hearing.

Get the attention of the person before you begin to speak. For a person with hearing problems, it takes a lot of concentrating in order to follow a conversation. Therefore, tap them to show them that you want to talk to them and that way, they will not have a difficult time trying to understand what you will be talking about.

Sometimes when you speak, a person may not be able to understand you. Therefore, you need to be facing them so that they are able to read your lips and fill I the blanks of what they could not understand. As you face them, avoid habits like chewing, moving around and covering your mouth while you are talking.

Enunciate as much as you can and maintain a steady pace of talking. Enunciating makes it clearer to hear whatever is being said. The steady pace of speech gives the person a chance to read your lips and understand you. If you speak too fast they may not at all understand what you are saying while speaking too slow makes lip reading harder.

As you already know, concentration is key in order to communicate to a person experiencing difficulty in hearing. Therefore, the background noise should be kept to a minimum. For example, the fan should be kept low or even the AC. If you are going out, you should make a point of choosing a corner booth that is well lit up for the person to read your lips.

When spending time with a group of people, do not make the person with the hearing problem feel excluded. You should be in a place that is well lit and put yourself in strategic positions where the person can be able to see each of you and read your lips. If the conversation involves them, take turns in speaking to avoid them getting confused.

The first few letters of a word can give a person an idea of what is being discussed. Therefore, you can spell the letters of a word that is hard to get. You should also not be tired of repeating a phrase several times in case they did not get it on the first try. Ultimately, you can choose to rephrase the words altogether and make them simpler.

Do not treat the person as if they were so delicate. The same way you would find humor when a normal person misunderstands, you should do the same. At the end of the day, it will be a lot of fun and they will be more comfortable speaking to you.




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